Comments on: Ask Joan: Too Much Loss https://seniorplanet.org/articles-ask-joan-loss/ Aging With Attitude Thu, 22 Jan 2026 12:19:19 +0000 hourly 1 By: Dave 87 https://seniorplanet.org/articles-ask-joan-loss/#comment-629697 Thu, 22 Jan 2026 12:19:19 +0000 https://seniorplanet.org/?p=209248#comment-629697 In reply to Sally.

“we had sex almost always daily if not more” Don’t know about you Sally, but as much as we enjoy each other and the pleasure of intimacy and physical pleasure, seems a bit excessive.I’d be pooped and my lover would be just a tad sore, me’thinks. Plus, how would you wipe that giveaway smile off your faces?
“Hey Joan “….your thoughts ?
What about some other female perspective ?

]]> By: Dave 87 https://seniorplanet.org/articles-ask-joan-loss/#comment-629379 Wed, 21 Jan 2026 11:43:40 +0000 https://seniorplanet.org/?p=209248#comment-629379 Performance rather than enjoymen t seems to be a problem here. My dry orgasams of the past 2 years, due to bladder cancer, are multiple and fantastic. My wife of 64 years does not miss the feeling of my ejaculation as that forceful feeling had slowly diminished as we aged. Get used to it and accept it. Giving pleasure, and recieving it count the most. Oral sex is not a duty…it is a pleasure. Joan, once again, gives great advice. Talk to your wife and listen to what she would like for you both.

]]> By: Sally https://seniorplanet.org/articles-ask-joan-loss/#comment-629332 Wed, 21 Jan 2026 07:01:03 +0000 https://seniorplanet.org/?p=209248#comment-629332 I think you should be grateful for what you had meaning nearly daily sex for 40 years which not everyone has. And also being grateful that you didn’t have anything more serious than the “roto rooter” procedures.

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